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How do you co-parent effectively with an ex you resent?
My ex and I have a 5 year old together. Our relationship ended badly and I genuinely resent them for how things went. Bu…
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How do you stop overthinking in a relationship?
I analyze every text message my partner sends me. If they take too long to reply I start imagining worst case scenarios.…
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How do you express emotions when you were raised not to show them?
I grew up in a household where emotions were not expressed and feelings were considered weakness. As an adult I have alm…
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How do you deal with jealousy in a friendship?
My best friend has been very successful lately, getting a great job, a relationship, and buying a house. I am genuinely …
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How do you stop people pleasing and start being authentic?
I change my personality depending on who I am with and say yes to everything to avoid conflict. I don't even know who I …
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Why do I always fall for people who are not available?
I seem to only develop strong feelings for people who are either taken, emotionally unavailable, or clearly not looking …
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Is it normal to feel relieved after a breakup but also devastated at the same time?
My relationship was unhealthy and I knew it had to end but now that it's over I feel two completely opposite things at o…
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How do attachment styles affect who we choose as partners?
I recently learned about attachment theory and it blew my mind. I think I have anxious attachment. How does your attachm…
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How do you end a long-term friendship that has become toxic?
I have a friend I have known for 12 years but the friendship has become completely one-sided, draining, and even harmful…
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How do you learn to receive criticism without becoming defensive?
Whenever I receive critical feedback, even when it is delivered kindly, I feel my body tense up and my mind immediately …
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How do you know if you are in love or just comfortable?
I have been with my partner for 4 years and I genuinely cannot tell if I love them or if I am just used to them. I do no…
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How do you support a partner who is insecure about their appearance?
My partner is deeply insecure about how they look. I find them genuinely attractive but nothing I say seems to help and …
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How do you stop comparing yourself to others on social media?
I know social media is a highlight reel but I still find myself feeling terrible about my life when I scroll. How do you…
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What does it mean to have a healthy relationship with yourself?
I hear people say you need to love yourself before you can love someone else but I don't really understand what that mea…
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Should I have children if I am not sure I want them?
I am 31 and everyone around me is having kids but I genuinely do not know if I want them. Some days I can imagine it and…