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Why are humans so resistant to changing their minds even with evidence?
I have had arguments where I provided clear evidence for my position and the other person simply refused to engage with …
🏷 human nature
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Why do humans need to feel like their suffering has meaning?
When something painful happens to me I find myself desperately searching for a reason or a lesson. Random meaningless su…
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Why does kindness from strangers sometimes feel more meaningful than kindness from people we know?
I had a stranger be genuinely kind to me last week during a difficult moment and it affected me more deeply than support…
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Why do people often want what they cannot have?
I have noticed that I find things more desirable when they are rare, forbidden, or just out of reach. The moment somethi…
7
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Why do people lie to themselves more than they lie to others?
I have started noticing how often I tell myself stories that justify my behavior, protect my ego, or let me avoid uncomf…
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Why do people conform even when they know the group is wrong?
I have noticed myself staying silent or going along with things in group settings even when I clearly knew the group was…
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Why do humans find it easier to be kind to strangers than to family?
I am patient and kind with strangers, coworkers, and friends but with my family I am often short, critical, and unkind i…