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How do you flirt without making it awkward or obvious?
I am terrible at flirting. Either I am too subtle and the person has no idea I am interested or I overdo it and make thi…
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What is the difference between attraction and a genuine connection?
I have dated people I was very physically attracted to but felt nothing deeper with them. And I have met people I wasn't…
34
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Does confidence actually make you more attractive?
People always say confidence is attractive but I have always assumed this is just something people say to make less conv…
22
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What are signs that someone is interested in you romantically?
I have been talking to someone and I genuinely cannot tell if they are just being friendly or if they are actually inter…
43
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How do you maintain attraction in a long-term relationship?
My partner and I have been together for 6 years and I love them deeply but the spark I felt early on has faded. We are m…
11
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What is the psychology behind why we idealize people we barely know?
I have noticed that I can become completely infatuated with someone I have only met a few times and build an entire imag…
24
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Why do I keep falling for unavailable people?
I always end up attracted to people who are either emotionally unavailable, already in relationships, or live far away. …
19
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Why do we find certain people attractive and others not at all?
I have tried to figure out what makes me attracted to some people and completely indifferent to others who are objective…
19
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Why do people play hard to get and does it actually work?
I have been told to play hard to get with someone I like but it feels fake and manipulative to me. I am a direct person …
43
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Why do I always freeze up when I talk to someone I find attractive?
The moment I start talking to someone I find attractive my mind goes completely blank. I forget how to have a normal con…
3
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Why do I always fall for people who are not available?
I seem to only develop strong feelings for people who are either taken, emotionally unavailable, or clearly not looking …
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Is it shallow to care about your partner's physical appearance?
I broke up with someone who was wonderful in every way but I was not physically attracted to them. People have called me…
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Does physical appearance actually matter in relationships long term?
My friend says looks fade and character is what matters in a long-term relationship. But another friend says physical at…