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How do you tell if someone is genuinely interested or just bored and lonely?
A guy I have been talking to texts me a lot and seems very engaged in conversation but he never actually makes plans to …
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How do you keep the conversation going on a first date?
I get so nervous on first dates that my mind goes blank and awkward silences happen. I over-prepare conversation topics …
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How do you flirt without making it awkward or obvious?
I am terrible at flirting. Either I am too subtle and the person has no idea I am interested or I overdo it and make thi…
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How do you ask someone out without ruining the friendship?
I have developed feelings for one of my close friends and I want to ask them out but I am terrified of ruining our frien…
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What is the difference between attraction and a genuine connection?
I have dated people I was very physically attracted to but felt nothing deeper with them. And I have met people I wasn't…
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What are signs that someone is interested in you romantically?
I have been talking to someone and I genuinely cannot tell if they are just being friendly or if they are actually inter…
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What should I text someone I am interested in after getting their number?
I got the number of someone I met at a friend's party and now I have no idea what to text them. I don't want to seem too…
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How do you recover from embarrassing yourself in front of someone you like?
I completely embarrassed myself in front of my crush yesterday. I said something so cringe I cannot stop replaying it in…
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How do you deal with being rejected by someone you really liked?
I finally told someone how I felt after months of building up the courage and they turned me down. I know rejection is p…
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Is it okay to make the first move as a woman?
I am interested in a guy I have been talking to for a few weeks. My friends say I should wait for him to make a move but…
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Is it bad to date multiple people at the same time?
I am currently going on dates with three different people and I feel guilty about it even though none of us have defined…
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Why do people play hard to get and does it actually work?
I have been told to play hard to get with someone I like but it feels fake and manipulative to me. I am a direct person …
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How do you know if a date went well?
I went on a first date last night and I genuinely cannot tell if it went well or not. We talked for 3 hours and I laughe…
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Why do I always freeze up when I talk to someone I find attractive?
The moment I start talking to someone I find attractive my mind goes completely blank. I forget how to have a normal con…
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Why do I always fall for people who are not available?
I seem to only develop strong feelings for people who are either taken, emotionally unavailable, or clearly not looking …