How do attachment styles affect who we choose as partners?

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I recently learned about attachment theory and it blew my mind. I think I have anxious attachment. How does your attachment style actually influence who you are attracted to and the relationships you end up in?

savannah_cox · Accepted Answer

Anxious and avoidant attachment styles are powerfully attracted to each other, creating a painful push-pull dynamic. The anxious person pursues, the avoidant retreats, which confirms both their fears.

emma_davis · Answer

Secure attachment is what we're all aiming for. The good news is attachment style can change with self-awareness and healthy relationships.

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