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Why do I always freeze up when I talk to someone I find attractive?
The moment I start talking to someone I find attractive my mind goes completely blank. I forget how to have a normal con…
26
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Should I reach out to my ex or wait for them to contact me first?
We broke up 3 weeks ago and it was mutual but messy. I want to reach out but I don't want to look desperate or push them…
19
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Is it okay to leave a job after only a few months if it is not the right fit?
I accepted a job 3 months ago and I already know it is completely wrong for me. The culture, the work, and the managemen…
3
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Why do I always fall for people who are not available?
I seem to only develop strong feelings for people who are either taken, emotionally unavailable, or clearly not looking …
9
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Is it shallow to care about your partner's physical appearance?
I broke up with someone who was wonderful in every way but I was not physically attracted to them. People have called me…
33
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Why do some people lose confidence after gaining weight?
Since gaining weight over the last two years my confidence has completely collapsed. I avoid social situations, I don't …
2
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How do you talk to someone about their mental health without offending them?
I am worried about a friend who seems really depressed but whenever I try to bring it up they shut me down or get defens…
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Is it normal for friendships to feel one-sided sometimes?
I feel like I am always the one initiating with my friend group. I text first, I make plans, I check in on people. When …
38
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Does physical appearance actually matter in relationships long term?
My friend says looks fade and character is what matters in a long-term relationship. But another friend says physical at…
16
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Why do I feel empty after getting everything I wanted?
I worked hard, got the job, the apartment, the relationship I wanted and now I feel completely empty and unmotivated. I …
27
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How do you know if you are ready for a serious relationship?
I have been single for two years after a difficult breakup and people keep telling me I should start dating again. But I…
32
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Is it ever okay to lie to protect someone's feelings?
My friend asked if I liked their new haircut and I hated it. I said I loved it. I feel like that was the kind thing to d…
15
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How do you manage intrusive thoughts that you know are irrational?
I get intrusive thoughts, disturbing images or scenarios that pop into my head without warning. I know they are not rati…
2
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How do you end a long-term friendship that has become toxic?
I have a friend I have known for 12 years but the friendship has become completely one-sided, draining, and even harmful…
14
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How do you forgive a friend who betrayed your trust?
My closest friend told other people something deeply personal I had shared with them in confidence. I am furious and fee…