Is it normal for friendships to feel one-sided sometimes?

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I feel like I am always the one initiating with my friend group. I text first, I make plans, I check in on people. When I pull back to see if anyone reaches out, weeks pass in silence. Is this a normal phase in friendships or is it a sign these friendships are not real?

audrey_diaz · Accepted Answer

It can be both. Some people are naturally reactive rather than proactive in friendships but still genuinely care. The test is whether they show up when you need them, not just whether they initiate contact.

emma_davis · Answer

If silence when you stop reaching out extends for weeks without any of them noticing, that's information about the depth of the friendship. Real friends eventually wonder where you went.

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