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How do you deal with someone who never apologizes?
My partner never apologizes no matter what they do. They might acknowledge something went wrong but never actually say s…
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How do you rebuild trust after being cheated on?
I decided to stay with my partner after they cheated on me but I am struggling to trust them again. I check their phone,…
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How do you manage intrusive thoughts that you know are irrational?
I get intrusive thoughts, disturbing images or scenarios that pop into my head without warning. I know they are not rati…
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How do you know if you are in love or just infatuated?
I met someone 3 weeks ago and I am completely obsessed with them. I think about them constantly. Is this love or just in…
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How do you navigate small talk when you find it exhausting and pointless?
I hate small talk. I find chitchat about weather and weekend plans completely draining and meaningless. But I also under…
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Why is it so hard to change bad habits even when you know they are harmful?
I know exactly which habits are hurting me. I know I should sleep more, exercise, eat better, and drink less. The knowle…
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How do you become more comfortable in your own skin?
I have never felt comfortable or at home in my own body. I feel awkward in photos, uncomfortable in social situations, a…
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How do you forgive a friend who betrayed your trust?
My closest friend told other people something deeply personal I had shared with them in confidence. I am furious and fee…
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How do you accept that some of your dreams may never happen?
I had dreams in my 20s that I am now realizing may genuinely not happen. I am grieving them but also feel like I am supp…
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How do you stop bringing past relationship baggage into new ones?
I am in a new relationship and I keep reacting to my new partner as if they are my ex. I get triggered by small things t…
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How do you know if someone is genuinely trustworthy or just good at seeming trustworthy?
I have been burned multiple times by people who seemed completely trustworthy at first. They were warm, consistent, and …
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Can a relationship survive long distance?
My partner is moving abroad for work for at least 2 years. We want to try long distance but everyone around us is negati…
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Is alcohol dependence the same as alcoholism and how do you know if you have a problem?
I drink most evenings to wind down and decompress. I do not think I am an alcoholic because I function fine at work and …
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How do you flirt without making it awkward or obvious?
I am terrible at flirting. Either I am too subtle and the person has no idea I am interested or I overdo it and make thi…
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Is it selfish to prioritize your own happiness over others expectations?
I have spent most of my life making choices based on what my family and community expected of me. I am now considering m…