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How do you stop comparing your life to others and find contentment?
I know comparison is the thief of joy but I cannot stop doing it. I compare my career, my relationship, my body, my achi…
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Why do people stay in unhappy marriages?
My parents have been clearly unhappy together for years but refuse to divorce. I see many couples like this. Why do peop…
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How do you know if you have depression or if you are just sad?
I have been feeling low for a few months now. I sleep too much, lost interest in things I used to enjoy, and feel hopele…
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Is it selfish to want time away from your children?
I love my kids more than anything but sometimes I fantasize about being alone, sleeping in, and just existing without so…
28
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What do you do when your friend group takes sides after a falling out?
I had a serious falling out with someone in my friend group and now mutual friends are choosing sides. Some have stopped…
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What is the difference between love and attachment?
I am not sure if I love my partner or if I am just deeply attached to them and scared of being alone. How can I tell the…
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How do you rebuild confidence after a period of neglecting your appearance?
I went through a depression last year and completely let myself go. I stopped exercising, eating well, or caring about h…
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How do you know if you are ready for a serious relationship?
I have been single for two years after a difficult breakup and people keep telling me I should start dating again. But I…
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How long does it actually take to get over a breakup?
My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me 2 months ago and I still cry every single day. Everyone keeps telling me I shou…
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Why does heartbreak cause physical pain in your chest?
After my breakup I have been feeling actual physical pain in my chest. Not a heart attack kind of pain but a dull aching…
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Is it wrong to leave a stable job to pursue something you are passionate about?
I have a secure well-paying job that I find completely meaningless. I want to leave to pursue something I actually care …
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How do you find meaning in ordinary everyday life?
My life is not dramatic or remarkable in any way. I have an average job, average relationships, and an average existence…
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How do you deal with a partner who shuts down during arguments?
Whenever we have a disagreement my partner completely shuts down, goes silent, and refuses to talk. This drives me crazy…
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Why do men pull away after getting close?
Every time I feel like we are getting really close and the relationship is progressing, he pulls away and becomes cold. …
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Why does my ex keep watching my social media but not reaching out?
My ex views all my Instagram stories within minutes of me posting them and sometimes likes old photos but never messages…