How do you deal with a partner who shuts down during arguments?

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Whenever we have a disagreement my partner completely shuts down, goes silent, and refuses to talk. This drives me crazy and nothing ever gets resolved. How do I communicate with someone who stonewalls?

ian_morris · Accepted Answer

Stonewalling is often a response to emotional flooding. Try taking a 20-30 minute break and revisit the conversation when both of you are calm.

maya_brooks · Answer

Try writing down what you want to say and giving it to them. Some people can process better when they read rather than hear something in the heat of the moment.

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