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Is it okay to make the first move as a woman?

I am interested in a guy I have been talking to for a few weeks. My friends say I should wait for him to make a move but I am not a very patient person and I hate playing games. Is it okay for a woman to make the first move or does it come across as desperate?
H hannah_open 24 November 2025
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Absolutely okay. Most men find it attractive when a woman knows what she wants and goes for it. The fear of looking desperate is outdated. Confidence is universally appealing.
C camila_perez 26 November 2025
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The only downside of making the first move is a potential no. But a no saves you weeks of waiting and wondering. That's actually a better outcome than ambiguity.
B benjamin_taylor 30 November 2025