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What advice would you give your younger self about relationships?
I am in my late 30s and looking back at my 20s I made so many relationship mistakes that caused enormous pain. I wish so…
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How do you deal with someone who never apologizes?
My partner never apologizes no matter what they do. They might acknowledge something went wrong but never actually say s…
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Is it bad to date multiple people at the same time?
I am currently going on dates with three different people and I feel guilty about it even though none of us have defined…
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How do you talk to your partner about sexual needs without feeling embarrassed?
I have needs and preferences in my sex life that I have never been able to express to my partner because I feel too emba…
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Why do humans find it easier to be kind to strangers than to family?
I am patient and kind with strangers, coworkers, and friends but with my family I am often short, critical, and unkind i…
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Why do girls lose interest so quickly in a relationship?
My girlfriend of 2 months seems distant lately. She used to be very affectionate but now she barely texts back. What cau…
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How do you know if someone is genuinely trustworthy or just good at seeming trustworthy?
I have been burned multiple times by people who seemed completely trustworthy at first. They were warm, consistent, and …
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Why do we find certain people attractive and others not at all?
I have tried to figure out what makes me attracted to some people and completely indifferent to others who are objective…
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How do you set boundaries with someone you love without hurting them?
I need to set some boundaries with my partner around alone time and personal space but I am afraid they will think I don…
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How do attachment styles affect who we choose as partners?
I recently learned about attachment theory and it blew my mind. I think I have anxious attachment. How does your attachm…
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Why do I sabotage good relationships?
Every time I am in a healthy relationship with someone who actually treats me well, I start picking fights, pulling away…
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Is it shallow to care about your partner's physical appearance?
I broke up with someone who was wonderful in every way but I was not physically attracted to them. People have called me…
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Does physical appearance actually matter in relationships long term?
My friend says looks fade and character is what matters in a long-term relationship. But another friend says physical at…
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How do you know if you are ready for a serious relationship?
I have been single for two years after a difficult breakup and people keep telling me I should start dating again. But I…
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Is it ever okay to lie to protect someone's feelings?
My friend asked if I liked their new haircut and I hated it. I said I loved it. I feel like that was the kind thing to d…