Why do parents favor one child over another and how does it affect the unfavored child?

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Growing up my parents very clearly favored my younger sister over me. She got more attention, more opportunities, and more forgiveness for mistakes. Now as an adult I struggle with deep feelings of not being good enough. Does parental favoritism cause lasting damage?

harper_garcia · Accepted Answer

Yes, parental favoritism causes real and lasting psychological effects. Research consistently shows the unfavored child often struggles with lower self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and difficulty trusting others. Your feelings make complete sense.

nora_speaks · Answer

Interestingly studies show the favored child is also negatively affected, often developing guilt, anxiety, and poor relationships with siblings. Favoritism harms the whole family system.

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