How do you handle a teenager who has completely shut you out?

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My 15 year old son used to talk to me about everything. Now he barely speaks to me, spends all his time in his room, and becomes hostile if I try to connect. I am worried but every attempt I make to reach him pushes him further away. What do I do?

willow_gray · Accepted Answer

Stop trying to initiate conversations and start creating contexts where conversation can happen naturally. Driving, cooking together, watching a show he likes. Teenagers talk sideways, not face to face.

paisley_ross · Answer

Some withdrawal is developmentally normal at 15. His job is to individuate from you. Stay present, keep the door open, don't make every interaction about getting information from him, and he will likely come back.

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