Why do adult siblings drift apart and how do you reconnect?

Question

My brother and I were very close growing up but since we both got married and had kids we barely talk. We live in different cities and months go by without contact. I miss the relationship we had. Why do siblings drift apart and is it possible to rebuild that closeness?

evelyn_white · Accepted Answer

Adult life creates competing demands and sibling relationships often get deprioritized because they feel secure. The fix is intentionality. Schedule regular calls, plan visits, and reach out first without waiting for them to do it.

grace_wright · Answer

Start with small consistent contact rather than grand gestures. A meme, a voice note, a quick text about something that reminded you of them. These small touchpoints rebuild closeness over time.

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