How do you tell someone a difficult truth without destroying the relationship?

Question

I need to tell a close friend something true that I know they do not want to hear. I have been avoiding it for months because I am scared of their reaction and how it might affect our friendship. How do you deliver hard truths with care?

aiden_king · Accepted Answer

Lead with your intention and your care for them before the truth itself. 'I'm telling you this because I care about you and I would want you to tell me.' Then say it clearly and without excessive softening that obscures the message.

emily_rose · Answer

Pick the right moment. Not when they are already stressed, defensive, or distracted. A private, calm setting where they have time to process is more likely to lead to the conversation you want.

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