How do you talk to your children about divorce without damaging them?

Question

My husband and I have decided to divorce. We have two kids aged 7 and 11. We both want to minimize the damage to them as much as possible. What is the right way to tell children about divorce and what should we avoid saying?

zoe_reflects · Accepted Answer

Tell them together, keep it age-appropriate, and emphasize two things clearly: it is not their fault and both parents still love them completely. Avoid any blame of the other parent in front of them, even if it is deserved.

savannah_cox · Answer

Reassure them about the practical things children worry about: where will I live, will I still see both of you, will I change schools. Their security is tied to routine and knowing what to expect.

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