How do you deal with workplace jealousy when a colleague gets promoted over you?

Question

My colleague got the promotion I was working toward and I am struggling with jealousy and resentment even though I like them as a person. I feel ashamed of these feelings but I cannot seem to shake them. How do you deal with jealousy at work professionally?

logan_walker · Accepted Answer

Jealousy is information, not a character flaw. It tells you what you want. Use it as fuel: ask your manager directly what you would need to demonstrate to be considered for the next opportunity.

nolan_reed · Answer

Congratulate your colleague sincerely. Maintaining professional relationships matters more than one promotion. People who handle disappointment with grace are remembered positively when the next opportunity comes.

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