Why does sex drive vary so much between partners and how do you handle it?

Question

My partner and I have very different levels of sexual desire. I want intimacy far more frequently than they do and when they say no I sometimes feel rejected even when I know it is not personal. How do couples navigate mismatched libidos without resentment building?

jakethereal · Accepted Answer

Mismatched desire is one of the most common relationship challenges and does not mean the relationship is broken. The key is separating rejection of the advance from rejection of you as a person. Then negotiate honestly about what both people actually need.

owen_wright · Answer

Look at what is driving the lower desire. Stress, hormones, medications, and emotional disconnection are all common causes that can be addressed. The conversation should be curious not accusatory.

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