How do you deal with people who invalidate your gender identity?

Question

Since coming out I have dealt with constant comments, questions, and outright dismissal of my identity from family members and some coworkers. Some people call it a phase, others ignore my pronouns deliberately. How do you protect your mental health when people refuse to acknowledge who you are?

willow_gray · Accepted Answer

Your identity does not require their validation to be real. Build your life around people who see you clearly and limit exposure to those who do not when possible. Community with other LGBTQ people who understand your experience is genuinely protective.

max_russell · Answer

Choose your battles strategically based on your safety and energy. You do not owe everyone an education. Some people are worth correcting, others are not. Protect yourself first.

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