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How do you handle social anxiety in group settings?

One-on-one I am fine but in groups I become almost paralyzed with anxiety. I worry constantly about what to say, when to speak, and whether people find me boring. I often leave group situations exhausted and embarrassed even when nothing objectively bad happened. How do you manage this?
D david_k 5 February 2026
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Give yourself one job in group settings: ask good questions and be genuinely interested in the answers. Anxiety in groups often comes from trying to be interesting. Focusing on being interested removes that pressure entirely.
D dominic_stewart 13 February 2026
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Social anxiety improves with graduated exposure not avoidance. Each time you avoid a group situation the anxiety is reinforced. Small regular exposures with manageable discomfort gradually reduce the anxiety response over time.
A andrew_carter 10 February 2026